10 Dating Mistakes Geeks Make
Are you a nerdy, old-fashioned, not-so-cool guy? If you are, you are one of the geeks. But do not ever worry because it does not necessarily mean that you can never get a gorgeous lady for a date. Bear in mind that you can fully express yourself just as what the coolest guy in town does. Just remember to know how to do the right stuffs. This article enumerates ten of the most common dating mistakes that geeks make. If you feel that it is for you, read further.
1. Over-Explaining
This is a common mistake that most geeks do when dating someone. It is good to have nice interesting chit-chats. However, it doesn’t mean that you should be insensitively talking a lot about someone or something even if you do not have to or your date does not want to know about it. Just imagine explaining the whole process of how a red wine became what it is.
2. Being all-knowing to the extent of offending your date
If there is one attribute that generally defines geeks, it is probably being smart and knowledgeable on things most people do not know about. The problem however is that a lot of geeks end up being condescending because of this quality. Trying to impress your date with so much of your wit might make him/her feel stupid.
3. Being always right
You might be witty, but being always right is a different story. Allow your date to decide. You can never be right all the time.
4. Always wearing tennis
There is nothing wrong with wearing white tennis. But when it is your footwear in every date, maybe it’s time to shop for new shoes. Wear nicer shoes that suit the type and venue of your dates
.5. Wearing not suitable clothes
There is a suitable outfit for every occasion. The sad story however, this is not being taken into consideration by some geeks. Don’t get yourself into a position where your date will be ashamed of your outfit that does not fit the event.
6. Outdated clothing
At times, gift sweatshirts or tees from high school party are so sentimental that they become among the most favorite wardrobe choices. If you are having a date soon, wear one of them and have an awful fashion taste.
7. Emailing or texting while talking
So which is more important, communicating with people on the other line or chatting with your date? If you say that it is the latter, congrats. You will not repeat the same mistake that most geeks commit.
8. Being so defensive during teasing
Learn how to roll with punches. Show your date how good you are in handing things.
9. Demonstrating a feeling of insecurity
Questions like “How is this date going?”, and “Did I answer you correctly?” are among the factors that will drag down the level of trust and confidence of your date on you.
10. Self-degradation
Some geeks think that pulling themselves down would gain the heart of their date. But it doesn’t. You should elevate you stature instead, but do not brag a lot.
You want to have an absolutely romantic and satisfying date, right? If yes, do not commit the above mistakes
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